My Spending Hiatus So Far

By Jenny Newcomer on Thursday October 01, 2009
This post is about moms, shopping, spending

Today's guest blogger Jenny Newcomer is a busy mom of 2 and the founder of LobotoME {eco-friendly organizational products} - For more information visit at www.LobotoME.com.


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Today's guest blogger, Jenny Newcomer, is the creator of LobotoME {eco-friendly organizational products}
We all need to take a break from buying new things once in awhile. I've found that a spending hiatus is a great way to not only reduce my bills for a period of time, but also a way to analyze what is truly important in my life. During prior spending hiatuses, my family & I found ourselves at home more together, cooking, relaxing, playing instead of going out to eat, going shopping because we were bored, and reassessing our financial priorities.

I first learned of the concept of a spending hiatus via the blog Simple Lovely.  She went on a self-imposed 3-month spending hiatus earlier this year. Some of her readers joined in, many watched and waited to see what she had learned in the process. After she wrapped hers up, another set of bloggers spear-headed by Aimee of the blog Mostly Mod began a "remainder of the year" spending hiatus -- 8 months long! Some chose to have a "No Spend Weekend" or a "No Spend Month", only paying for housing, utilities, food & gas for a shorter time frame.

I joined in, but made a few exceptions -- some travel, some unfinished house & landscaping related expenses, birthday & holiday gifts (that aren't homemade), and I vowed not to by any "un-necessary" items. If I found we did need something (eg. Sam new sneakers), to try a thrift store first. I am 4 months into it and have been doing really well, for the most part.

There have been a few slip-ups but I have attempted to gracefully acknowledge them and move on. But it hasn't been easy. There is great temptation out there in the world. I quickly learned to avoid my personal spending triggers (eg. Anthropologie & Target in my case) and I started using cash for everything from groceries to our misc. family fun category each month. Not using the credit card greatly reined in unplanned purchases. And I constantly remind myself that I would rather spend time on the beach in Mexico than have a new cute dress or new pair of shoes. Additionally, by spending less and saving more, we have paid off one car loan and my almost all of graduate school loans (over $20,000 total paid off thus far this year) and created a 6-month emergency fund.

So for me, my spending hiatus is about spending SMART. It isn't about deprivation. This is about plugging my leaks of wasteful spending and using our money for specific purposes, rather than by habit or accident. We are attempting to save money by spending only on things that we really care about and plan to buy for a specific purpose. The bottom line with this spending hiatus for me is to spend less money on things I don't care much about so I can spend on things I do care about (eg. traveling). We want to spend our discretionary money on doing rather than owning. Because in the end, positive & fun life experiences contribute to happiness more than things do.

You can read more about my spending hiatus journey on my blog - spending hiatus updates are posted every Friday.

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Join Me for a Week
In honor of Jenny and her efforts, I (Amanda, DW founder) am freezing my spending for the week of October 5th. Who's with me? Leave a comment below and join the fun. We'll use the comment area below to track our progress. Truthfully, I'm not excited about it as I love spending money. But I know a conscious break will be good for me.

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written by stephanie corfee , October 01, 2009
i'm in!! my husband and i decided not to spend any money outside our bills/gas/groceries for the next few weeks. and even with groceries, we are on the "clean out the pantry" diet. so much stuff we have and should make and eat!! i already see a difference in my pocket and life after 5 days.
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written by LobotoME , October 01, 2009
of course i'm in too! you can do it amanda! ;-)
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written by Miranda Spencer , October 01, 2009
I have always lived like this (not spending unless I really need to). Perhaps it's because I've never had much excess money lying around and have learned how to make do. It's indeed very creative and rewarding (not to mention "green"!) to reduce, reuse, and recycle, both literally and figuratively.
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written by Holly Tarson , October 01, 2009
Count me in.
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written by Jennifer , October 01, 2009
I admire people for cutting back as much as they can, but I can't help but being frustrated by the fact that they do it as an "experiment". For some people, it is the simple reality of their lives. I can save for weeks to buy a new pair of shoes, only to have to spend the money on health care or another essential. It is not my intention to discredit the experiment; I agree that people spend far too much money on things they don't really need, or for the wrong reasons; but I know what it's like to both overspend, and to live with just enough money to pay bills and buy the basics. From my experience, it's better to simply have a balance. Live your life to the fullest as inexpensively as possible, but don't deny yourself your true pleasures, either. And kudos to anyone who makes the choice to live with less.
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written by lena , October 01, 2009
Yeah! i'm all for it! i'm in! count me in!!!
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written by Amanda (DW Founder) , October 03, 2009
@stephanie @jenny @holly @lena - so glad you're joining me. Though I'm officially going on my money diet on Monday, I've already started cutting back. I cooked on Friday night (would generally have ordered in - SAVED $40.00) and repaired my comforter by sewing the holes rather than buying a new one (SAVED $200.00 !). I've also felt pangs of deprivation, making somewhat obsessive lists in my head what I want to be spending on: new boots for fall, new sweatshirts for my son (he only has 2), birthday gift possibilities for my husband. The best part is that I've decided to tally how much I'm saving and apply it to my ING-DIRECT fix-my-fireplaces account. Dreaming about what it will be like to have fires this winter makes the lack of take-out dinners totally worthwhile.

@Jennifer - sounds like you're already developed the "saving muscle" due to life circumstance. Sorry if it's offensive to you that I'm making it a game. From my standpoint, if I make something too weighty (like a diet for example), I'm likely not to stick with it. By making it a game, I'm less afraid of failure and I think I'll make more progress. So far I already have. Would love to hear your tips on saving -- how you avoid spending when you don't need to. ~ Amanda
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written by Cristina , October 05, 2009
do my children's piano lessons count? and what about grocery shopping? are we talking about "extra-ordinary" spending (clothes, books, perks, etc? Or any spending at all? pls. advise.


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written by MichelleC , October 05, 2009
I just finished a one-year "no personal shopping" experiment. My mom has done this 3 times in her life, and I can now say it was one of the most liberating experiences. One year of no shopping for clothing, shoes, or accessories. Of course, gifts for other (birthday, christmas, etc) are fine- this shouldn't be a sacrifice for others in your life! Personal hygiene stuff is ok too, same as hair cuts. But make-up, only replaced things when I ran out. The year flew by and I was able to pay down my credit card, which after living in New York had gotten out of hand. Good luck everyone!
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written by Amanda (DW Founder) , October 05, 2009
Cristina -- of course buy food and things you need. Just nothing frivolous. For example, this morning, I sent Dylan to pre-school in pants that are too small for him (they look like clam-diggers - not a cute look for a boy). The normal me would say "oh, must go to Target and get him some more pants." This week's me is going to do an extra load of laundry. I'm torn about new sippy cups for Maya. She's ready for that special in-between bottle / sippy cup and we have none. Is that a need? A want? I'm grappling with it.

Go Michelle! I've been doing it for 2 days now, have saved $240.00 and also feeling liberated. And resourceful. I'm having a lot of "duh - that was easy" moments.
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written by cristina , October 05, 2009
tnx amanda. ok, i'm in. fingers crossed...
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written by LobotoME , October 07, 2009
Yes, I don't count mortgage, food, health insurance, utilities, daycare - I count basically the stuff you buy at target! Its amazing how it becomes a habit once you've been doing it for awhile. You start to "think" about your purchases before putting them into your cart... ;-)
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written by Amanda (DW Founder) , October 07, 2009
How is everyone doing? I've saved $380.00 so far. I'm deducting $20.00 that I spent on new sippy cups yesterday. I decided I really needed them.
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written by LobotoME , October 12, 2009
How'd the week long spending hiatus go Amanda, others? Success? Lessons learned?
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written by samsstuff , October 13, 2009
A great idea! Some ideas for getting the 'wants' without spending or by spending very little: Resale & thrift stores for kids clothes, as most kids outgrow their clothes long before they wear them out. Another great idea for getting little extras that you want, but don't need is through trades. There are several online sites, like freecycle where you can get rid of the excess stuff you have & indulge in some of the little extras you want, without spending money. Thanks for posting this terrific idea!
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written by Amanda (DW Founder) , October 14, 2009
Hey Jenny - sorry to not respond. I'm working on a blog post about it for We, The Savers (ING's blog) - will send you (and everyone else) the link when it posts.
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