Why do so many couples fight about money?
Because many of us lack the skills to have basic, house-cleaning conversations about financial topics.
Like all aspects of a relationship, financial intimacy must be nurtured, (slowly, patiently, lovingly) in order to grow.
Here, a three-part method to build financial rapport with your mate, simply by asking questions, inspired by this post on SavvySugar.com.
| Theme | Tone | Exercise |
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Step 1: Getting to Know You |
Playful |
Swap ice breakers: What's your #1 money worry? What are you saving for? |
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Step 2: Getting to Know Us |
Inquiring |
Explore values: How would you spend a raise? What's your ideal lifestyle? |
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Step 3: Becoming a Team |
Give & Take |
Seek agreement: We need X and we have to pay off Y—what do you suggest? How much do we need total? |
